Bebo,Myspace, Twitter and especially Facebook has taken over the world. If all the Facebook users were a country it would be the third largest in the world, 1 in 3 people in Britain have Facebook so the only people that don't have it are babies and Kelly. The average user has 130 friends, but how many of these are are friends? a lot of these people I'm 'friends' with are mostly strangers, and don't interact with them at all, and the people i do interact with are my real life friends who i see every day anyway!
The positive social benefits of social networking, i think are being able to interact with friends that we don't get so see face to face, for example family in Australia, or friends in different colleges. If they post pictures we get to see what there doing and status's reveal 'whats on there mind'. Before Facebook, we would of had to describe aspects of are life that are friends are missing out on over the phone or emails, or be really old skool and write a letter! A negative aspect of communicating through Facebook is that we stop having genuine conversations with people, meaning we don't convey true emotion. You can't cry over a friends shoulder online, all you can do is type a pathetic :'(. This all shows that were getting lazy in are friendships, back in the day we would pick up the phone arrange a meeting place and hope that they would be there to meet us! why would we do that when we can instantly talk to are friends without having to get up and leave the computer (if we can bear it!) ?
This changes most forms of are relationships and how we meet people, we can now become friends with friends of friends through Facebook (if they accept) without being introduced by are friend, defeating the whole object! Meeting people on nights out are a thing of the past, we can talk to them for 5 minutes and from finding out are names they can find out a lot more from adding us on Facebook! If we choose to put up photos they know where we went with who, and if we post status's they know how we feel about what!
When we finally meet up with are abandoned friends, most of us have to make an active effort not to check facebook when were with them, most new mobile handsets come with the internet or a Facebook app,meaning if there's wifi connection in the cafe, on the train or where ever we are we can instantly access are Facebook, updating on the go. Do we really need to know that Sophie just ate an apple? or that I'm not enjoying the weather? we wouldn't send a letter to everyone that we know to tell them a pointless, irrelevant piece of information, so what is the constant need to let everyone know everything about are lives!?
Instant access to almost all information affects our ability to process the information, we don't take any of the information in, casually skim reading through everything that everybody is up to in there day to day lives. Does this make it not as important?
What would i do if Facebook didn't exist? i would turn off the computer, leave the house and interact with friends face to face. This is because i wouldn't know any better and you cant miss what you never had. A lot of my friends (admittedly not the ones im close to) would be in despair without Facebook, before it would be "i'd die without my straightners and chocolate" and now its "i cant live without Facebook" and we have to ask ourselves, really!?
i dread to think of the future of social networking, will we ever see each other in real life again!? i hope so, are we going to turn into robots!? i hope not.


